SC girl, 3, ordered by judge to leave only family she's ever known
The Dalsings are fighting to keep Braelynn (above), a three-year-old girl they legally adopted at three weeks old

ROCK HILL, S.C. - A couple in South Carolina is speaking out about their fight to keep their little girl they legally adopted when she was a baby after losing a court ruling to her biological father who was just released from prison and wants to raise her.

Three-year-old Braelynn has lived with the Tammy and Edward Dalsing since she was three weeks old in Rock Hill, WBTV reported.

Despite legally adopting the toddler in 2015,  a court recently ruled she belongs with her biological father, Andrew Jack Myers, after he appealed the adoption order.

"I'm just blown away. I just don't understand how you can do this to a child," Edward told the television station.

According to court documents, Braelynn's biological mother gave up her parental rights while her father was incarcerated. Because of that, his rights were terminated. But her father argues that never should have happened and last month a judge agreed, vacating the Dalsing's original adoption order. 

"It would be the equivalent of having both of your parents die. Well, your whole family, her sisters, her brothers," Tammy said.

Three-year-old Braelynn has lived with Tammy and Edward Dalsing (above) since she was a newborn in Rock Hill. Despite legally adopting her in 2015, a court recently ruled that she belongs with her biological father, Andrew Myers, after he appealed the adoption order
 
Three-year-old Braelynn has lived with Tammy and Edward Dalsing (above) since she was a newborn in Rock Hill. Despite legally adopting her in 2015, a court recently ruled that she belongs with her biological father, Andrew Myers, after he appealed the adoption order
 
The three-year-old's (above) biological father claims that should have never happened and a judge agreed with him last month and vacated the couple's adoption order

The three-year-old's (above) biological father claims that should have never happened and a judge agreed with him last month and vacated the couple's adoption order

Edward (above) said: 'I was just stunned when we got the word from... when we got the word from the appellate court. Biology does not make a mother and a father, love does. And she is very much loved where she's at. That's where she needs to be'

Edward (above) said: 'I was just stunned when we got the word from... when we got the word from the appellate court. Biology does not make a mother and a father, love does. And she is very much loved where she's at. That's where she needs to be'

Life with the Dalsings is all Braelynn has ever known. The couple says they started fostering her when she was just three weeks old. She's three and a half now.

"The judge was so clear on why she chose us and why she did not choose the biological father or his family members. She was very clear," Tammy said. 

But that clarity faded two months ago, when Braelynn's biological father appealed the adoption order and a court agreed citing a previous ruling which said being incarcerated wasn't enough of a reason to terminate a parent's rights.

"I was just stunned when we got the word from... when we got the word from the appellate court," Edward told the television station.

The Dalsing's have requested a re-hearing with the state court of appeals as Braelynn continues to live with them. They say the little girl has never met her biological father.

"All of a sudden I'm going to look at her and say, I'm sorry baby girl but I can't be your mommy anymore and daddy can't be your daddy anymore. And you can't live here anymore. She is not going to understand that," Tammy said.

But Braelynn's biological father disagrees. His attorney sent WBTV the following statement on his behalf:

Mr. Myers is very pleased with the outcome in the Court of Appeals.  He has tried to remain positive throughout this ordeal.  In defeat, he quietly persevered through the appellate process.  In victory, he patiently awaits the next step.  It is extremely unfortunate that a case that should have been kept so private to protect this young child has become so public at no fault of Mr. Myers or this young child.  The social media footprint that has been created by the defeated party in this case will forever haunt this child and be available for all to see for years and years to come.  It is extremely selfish and will never be in the best interest of any child.

Braelynn's best interest is what the Dalsing's say they're fighting for. 

"Biology does not make a mother and a father, love does. And she is very much loved where she's at. That's where she needs to be," Edward said. 

Braelynn's biological grandmother is also involved in this fight and also wants her to be returned to their family. A decision from the court of appeals could come at any time. 

South Carolina DSS had no comment on the case.

 
 
 
 
By Lena Sullivan 02/05/2017 15:31:00

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